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r/raisedbyborderlines PUBLIC
A survivor sub exclusively for children raised by a toxic parent or guardian with borderline personality disorder/emotionally unstable personality disorder. This is a constructive, supportive space to find healing from your abusive parent and dysfunctional home. PLEASE READ THE RULES before you participate. We take sub members' safety very seriously.
104,822 members
Created: Sep 2014
Language: EN
POSITIVE SENTIMENT
Last analyzed: Apr 27, 2026 12:01
80
Friendliness Score
2.7%
Engagement Rate
77
Conversion Potential
2.0%
Monthly Growth
Marketing Analytics
39.2
Avg Post Score
15.0
Avg Comments
25
Brand Mentions
0
Posts/Hour
Top Post Types
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100.0% (50)
Peak Activity Hours
Times shown in UTC (Coordinated Universal Time)
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12PM UTC
High
~20 active
2AM UTC
Medium
~15 active
Community Culture
Community Sentiment
POSITIVE
3.0K
Avg User Karma of Top Posts
70%
Commercial Acceptance
Content Preferences
Moderation Patterns
Rules & Compliance
29
Total Rules
Posting Requirements & Restrictions
No limit
Minimum Karma
No limit
Min Account Age (days)
ANY
Submission Type
Enabled
Flair System
Subreddit Rules
- READ ALL THE RULES before you participate: [The rules in more detail](https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbyborderlines/comments/1246iqj/welcome_all_newcomers_must_read_the_rules_before/)
- [Please message the mod team with questions.](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fraisedbyborderlines) Don’t explain the rules to each other; let us do it.
- We are unfortunately a magnet for trolls. Our priority is maintaining a supportive space. We never take mod actions lightly and depend on the community to help keep everyone safe.
- People w/ BPD may not participate: We are unqualified and unable to provide a safe and appropriate space for people with BPD. This includes people with BPD who have BPD parents, and those with a non-current diagnosis. Subs for you include r/BPD, r/BPD4BPD, r/BPDsraisedbyBPDs, and many others. PwBPD deserve healing, but they need their own safe space and we need ours.
- Dealing with a loved one with BPD, but not your parent or primary caregiver? You're looking for r/BPDlovedones or r/BPDfamily instead.
- People with other PDs may not participate: We are unqualified and unable to provide a safe and appropriate space for people with any personality disorders. Other subs exist for each PD, run by and for each respective community.
- No bullying, invalidating, or apologist behavior: Bullying, invalidating/gaslighting behavior, or being a "BPD apologist" will get you banned.
- We know that not all pwBPD are like our parents. Stating this on our sub serves only to invalidate our experiences.
- If you have BPD and are dedicated to treatment, we completely support your journey to heal. We also probably aren't talking about you. Please respect our space.
- Respectfully disagreeing with each other is usually OK, but be supportive.
- Keep things about the sub strictly to the sub: Don't reference or link to other subs, especially those for pwBPD. This is to respect their spaces and protect ours.
- Don't crosspost. This includes copying and pasting a post to/from another sub.
- Don't solicit or offer DMs or other off-sub contact.
- Don't message individual mods; [instead, send a modmail.](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fraisedbyborderlines)
- No diagnosis inquiries: We aren't mental health professionals and can't diagnose.
- Your parent doesn’t need a formal diagnosis, but if you aren’t reasonably sure your parent meets 5+ of the [9 diagnostic criteria](https://www.verywellmind.com/borderline-personality-disorder-diagnosis-425174), please don't participate.
- No discussion about “fleas”** (maladaptive traits picked up from your BPD parent); please turn to therapy or self-help resources. If you think you might have BPD, our sub is not safe for you.
- Suicidal posts or similar are forbidden: #Call emergency services (911, 999, 000, 112, etc.) if you are in danger of hurting yourself or others. If you are in crisis and you work with a therapist, please contact them.
- /r/raisedbyborderlines is a peer support forum, not a replacement for professional mental health services. For your safety and others, posts about a poster’s own current suicidality are not allowed here. We recommend r/SuicideWatch instead.
- It’s okay to discuss a parent’s suicidality here.
- Who gets to participate?: This sub is for survivors of BPD abuse from a parent or primary caregiver. If you weren’t raised by a person with BPD, you can't participate here.
- We do our best to be supportive, but we're not an anyone-with-an-opinion sub.
- No mental health experts.** For everyone's safety, do not claim to be a MH expert or dispense expert advice. Participate only in your personal capacity.
- No research requests or self-promotion.**
- No legal advice
- one on Reddit can give reliable legal advice.
- Participation guidelines: [**A) Code of conduct**](http://redd.it/9ar57s/) (TL;DR: Be nice! :))
- No bigotry (like racism, sexism, or LGBTQphobia), no proselytizing; be kind.
- B) First post requirement for new members:**
- To show us you've read the rules and agree to follow them in good faith, please include a haiku about the virtues of cats in your first post, or a link to cute kitty pics. Please also privately message the mod team about your alternate accounts if you have any.
Marketing Data Updated
Apr 27, 2026
Rules Updated
Apr 18, 2026
Compliance Updated
Apr 18, 2026